lulz
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Post by lulz on Oct 13, 2010 1:16:30 GMT -5
My boyfriend and I have been together for white awhile now. He nor my family knows of my past life. Lately I feel the need to share this info with both my mom and boyfriend. I just don't know how to bring it up. Any time I her the chance to lead up to it, someone cuts me off and gets me all off topic. It isn't exactly something easy to go back to either once ruined. I want to tell them both. I just don't know when or how. What do I even say to them? And how can I create the right time, free of interruptions. I'm so irritated that I'm trying to tell them something huge to me, and they won't take the time to hear what I need to say. I need advice so badly.
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Post by Laurasia on Oct 13, 2010 11:32:40 GMT -5
I'm sorry that you're feeling so frustrated right now, hon. ~hugs~ Well....do they both understand &/or believe in reincarnation? If not, I would start with just talking about the topic in general. Because if they don't & you just come out with "I want to tell you about one of my past lives" you're going to end up going over all of it anyway.  So scout the situation first to get an idea of what their level of understanding on the general topic is before you start. If they already do understand &/or believe in reincarnation I would set up a "date" (not necessarily out in public, but could also be a quiet dinner at home or something similar) so that you can sit them both down & share it with them. Just make sure that they know ahead of time that this is going to be a time for you to seriously share something important with them & not just a time for random chattering. That should get their attention enough for them to hush up & listen.  Good luck in sharing your past with your family, hon. And be sure to let us know how it turns out once you are able to finally do it. ;D Sincerely, Laurasia |
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lulz
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Post by lulz on Oct 13, 2010 11:59:23 GMT -5
Ivre discussed reincarnation with them both, and they're both open completely to it. I've tried starting in on telling them the memories I has before telling them who I was. The problem is, nobody will let me keep on enough to get to that. They always turn it around on their dreams or something that has no relation to a past life it memory. I just wish I could get them to hear me out when the time is right and I feel comfortable enough.
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Post by Laurasia on Oct 13, 2010 12:07:21 GMT -5
I'm very glad to hear that they are both open to the topic. That's a huge hurdle that you won't have to contend with. Like I said hon, set aside a specific time where just the three of you can sit down & talk. And make sure that they know this time is meant for you to share something important with them & not a time to discuss other topics. Sincerely, Laurasia |
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So scout the situation first to get an idea of what their level of understanding on the general topic is before you start. 